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We talked and he said he appreciated my courage to confess my feelings for him. I think he was also overwhelmed because he looked affected and seemed to want to talk to me but just couldn't.
He's studying physics, while I'm studying philosophy. Finally, I worked up the courage to tell him I liked him. HOWEVER, he did not ask for my number and just told me "See you around! The next few days, it seemed like nothing happened. But after a few days he said hi and I was just like "Yeah hi" but I was still overwhelmed about what I just did.
Just as you feel revitalized by hanging out with other people, your partner gets the same feeling from solitude.
Finding a balance can be difficult because "a loner can be perfectly content with their own company, while being alone will make another person utterly miserable," notes psychologist Ros Taylor.
I would say he's interested at the lightest - considering his reaction and looking at you - but was not sure on how to deal with a new situation out of the nowhere (probably he's also not very experient with talking with women).
But he seems not to have a clue on how to go from there - womenly "subtle clues" will not work here, and it seems you will have some work to do yourself. I would self-identify as a 'smart and loner' guy.
We are both smart people and both of us had never been in a relationship.
Keep talking to him, be friendly and maybe you'll have to be the oke taking the initiative to invite him for a coffee. I used to be very oblivious to the intentions of girls; even if it was obvious that a girl liked me or down-right told me, I would not necessarily do anything with it.