Dating new york woman
For some singles in New York, they perpetually date with no intention of ever committing to establishing a true connection with anyone. When you date in New York, you’ll experience a lot of beginnings, and not so many middles, meaning, you can go from having a great first few dates to never hearing from the person ever again.
Dating here is like a pinball game – the ball moves quickly from one point to another just like how you can have a fleeting connection from one person to the next.
Originally from the West Coast, I had no idea what I was in for when I started dating in New York.
I was used to the linear progression of old fashioned courtship, an even balance of single men to women, and the norm of dating one person at a time.
But in New York, dating multiple people at a time is the norm, rather than the exception.
The reality is the person you are seeing is likely seeing a few other people at the same time.
Peel back those layers of defense mechanisms and walls built from years of disappointment, pain or feeling rejected.